National Stalking Awareness Month

It’s officially 2015 and I’m already overwhelmed…as I don’t even know where to start with this post. I always say “so much has happened since my last post”…but it couldn't be truer than it is right now. I want to touch on something...and will try to elaborate on it more later this month...but...

               

     Let’s start with the most important thing. January is National Stalking Awareness Month.

And on that note...I’m about to say something that is going to make a lot of people angry.

If you are being stalked…don’t rely on the courts to take care of it. Laws are written vaguely. Judges suck sometimes. Victim’s advocates are typically a total joke. And aggressors typically act in ways that we don’t expect.

Let me be clear that you should ALWAYS SEEK LEGAL HELP. No matter what. No matter who is stalking or threatening you. Always seek assistance from someone. Loved ones…but mostly the authorities.

However.

I will suggest other options.

Learn to protect yourself. Buy a gun (yea yea yea go ahead…get your panties all in a bunch you “guns kill” people). But seriously…find a way to protect yourself. Never depend on someone else. Take your safety and your life into your own hands.

Surround yourself with support. Whether it be friends, neighbors, or family. Make sure you always have support, and people you can go to.

Give yourself the power. Never allow yourself to live in fear. It will cripple you and there’s simply no reason for that.

Find a group of people who have been through it. Try to find solace with them.

Stay strong no matter the circumstances. 

The day you give up is the day your aggressor wins.

I know this is cliché. But believe that karma wins in the end. Because the fact is…she does. Crazy biatch is impressive in that way. You will never know how or when she will do it. But she will take care of things.

Learn as much as you can to protect yourself. Stay as strong as possible.

And NEVER let your attacker win. They simply aren't worth your sanity.